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Consent matters, each and every time. Everyone, no matter who they are, or where they come from, has the right to be respected and have autonomy over their bodies. That’s why UNSW is committed to creating a safe and respectful environment for everybody.
Whether you're a student or staff member at UNSW, we all have a part to play in keeping our community safe. Upholding and observing the standards of equity and respect when interacting with every member of our community is vital to creating a culture where consent and communication are an integral part of everyday life. We're all responsible for ensuring that every member of the community is treated with the respect they deserve.
Consent is when a person freely and voluntarily agrees to behaviour, understanding what they are doing and who they are doing it with. This includes situations in everyday life and when it comes to sexual activity. The FRIES acronym can be a helpful way to check-in for consent.
Following the recent reforms in sexual consent laws, affirmative consent is a legal requirement in NSW as of 1 June 2022. Affirmative consent means that consent can’t be assumed, and a person must do or say something to affirm that they have consent at the time, and for the duration, of sexual activity.
Consent is reversible, and anyone can change their mind about what they want to experience at any time
Consent is informed and involves ongoing and mutual communication
You must actively seek and affirm enthusiastic consent through words or action, as consent cannot be assumed from silence or inactivity
Consent is specific, meaning that consenting to one sexual activity (e.g., kissing), does not mean you are consenting to others (e.g., oral sex). Consent matters and needs to be affirmed every time. Just because you consented to having sex once, doesn’t mean you automatically consent to sex in the future.
FRIES is a concept by Planned Parenthood What Is Sexual Consent? | Facts About Rape & Sexual Assault (plannedparenthood.org)
Remember, consent is an ongoing conversation. That means you should check-in for consent every time and #MakeNoDoubt. If you're ever unsure about boundaries or how to start the conversation, see the NSW Governments Make No Doubt campaign, which provides examples of how to check-in for consent.
The 2021 UA National Student Safety Survey report found that gendered violence (including sexual harassment, sexual assault and unwelcome sexual behaviour) is still far too prevalent across Australian Universities. Gendered violence is against the UNSW Codes of Conduct and has no place at UNSW.
What is sexual assault?
When engaging in sexual activity, there must always be affirmative consent, where there is ongoing communication and boundaries are respected. Engaging in sexual activity without consent is a crime.
Sexual assault is a crime.
If someone says they’ll use a condom and then deliberately removes it during sex without their partner’s consent, that may be sexual assault.
A person can’t consent if they are:
If you witness disrespectful behaviour or an incident of gendered violence at UNSW, be an active bystander. An active bystander witnesses an incident and takes action to disrupt the situation and prevent it from escalating, if it is safe to do so. Be aware of high-risk situations and always consider your own safety first. Active bystanders challenge disrespectful behaviours and attitudes, and play an important role in creating a culture of respect that prevents incidents from occurring in the first place.
If you, or someone you know, is affected by gendered violence, there are options available for you to receive support and make a report. Your report can be anonymous, and you can make a report on behalf of someone else. To find out what happens after you make a report, please see this booklet.
Be A Better Human Booklet – consent, sexual harassment and sexual assault
SEXtember – resources including a free online course and videos on consent
Students: Review ELISE Respect@UNSW resources
Staff: Review the Gendered Violence Awareness and Response training
Report an incident of sexual assault or harassment, whether you have been directly affected, are a witness to an incident or a support person.
The Gendered Violence Portal allows anyone to report an incident of sexual assault or harassment, whether you have been directly affected, are a witness to an incident or a support person. Reports can be made anonymously and will remain confidential unless specifically stated by the person reporting.
Find the right person or service to give you the support and advice you need. There are many people and services who can help you along the path to recovery from experiences of sexual harassment and sexual assault. If you are not sure what to do - you can talk to someone from one of the free and confidential services.