Redefining self-care for men: Why your mental wellbeing matters
University life can be both fulfilling and challenging, which is why it's important to stay on top of your mental wellbeing.
University life can be both fulfilling and challenging, which is why it's important to stay on top of your mental wellbeing.
Mental health is an ongoing conversation in Australia, particularly among young people between 15 to 24 who are studying at university. For students, maintaining a healthy level of mental wellbeing is a big challenge as it's difficult to balance studying, working and wellbeing effectively. For men in particular, mental health is a growing concern.
According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, one in seven men will experience depression, while one in five will face anxiety at some point in their lives. For university students in particular, loneliness has been identified as a cause that's significantly associated with depression and loneliness.
While more people in general are seeking support from professionals for their mental health and wellbeing, women are more likely to ask for help compared to men. Breaking it down further, health service use among men is generally low, with 25 per cent of men saying they would not seek help from anyone for their mental health.
So, why aren't more men seeking support for their mental health? It's a complicated answer with a lot of nuance and elements to it, but a major ongoing factor is the negative stigma surrounding men and talking about their mental wellbeing.
There's an outdated stereotype that men are meant to be 'strong' and 'stoic', and showing any vulnerability is akin to being 'weak' or not 'masculine'. In some countries, there are additional cultural factors and gender roles at play. Some countries hold traditional expectations of masculinity, which in turn can hinder men from seeking support for their mental health.
Like how you would go see a doctor for an illness, or go to the gym to build up physical strength, mental wellbeing is an important part of your overall health. In the same way that exercises exist to build up certain muscles, there are ways to look after your mental health while you're studying.
With that in mind, let's look at ways you can take care of your wellbeing, as well as the many resources available to you at UNSW.
Your wellbeing is our top priority and UNSW has an extensive range of general health and wellbeing resources to ensure that everyone is properly taking care of themselves.
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When life gets busy or challenging, our self-care and mental wellbeing are some of the first things to be pushed to the wayside.
Let's change that way of thinking and look at some ways you can keep your mental health at a healthy level while you're studying.
Thriving on a diet of chocolate sounds good, but it's sadly not feasible for us human beings. Studies have shown a strong link between what we eat and how we feel, so it's important to eat a healthy and balanced diet (with carbohydates, protein, a variety of fruit, vegetables and nuts)
This will not only result in better mental clarity, but it'll help with your energy levels and general health. Chocolate is perfectly fine in moderation, just don't forget the healthy food!
If accessing food is an issue, UNSW's Food Security Strategy ensures that every student can access affordable and nutritious meals through a series of support programs. Don't be afraid to hit up these support programs if you need access to healthy food.
Exercise isn't just a great way to stay physically healthy, it is also a great way to boost your mental health thanks to all the endorphins released. Plenty of studies have linked regular exercise with reduced anxiety, lower stress and improved moods.
It's doesn't have to be gym work either. Any form of physical activity will have a positive impact, whether it's walking, dancing or even performing chores. The key here is to find a form of movement that you can consistently enjoy.
If you're keen to do a sport or some form of physical activity with like-minded people, have a look through the list of clubs and find one that tickles your fancy. Or you can head down to the UNSW Fitness and Aquatic Centre (FAC) and join a class of your choosing!
There's a strong link between mental wellbeing and sleep. Poor sleeping habits can result in greater stress, irritability, an inability to concentrate and depression. Aim for 7 to 9 hours of sleep a night, and stick to consistent sleep and awake times. By building a healthy sleep routine, you'll be doing your brain function and wellbeing a massive favour.
But don't forget to rest during the day too!
Productive studying won't happen if you've been staring at a book or screen for several hours. Build regular breaks into your study blocks and use that time to reenergise yourself. Go for a walk and clear your head, or treat yourself to a snack before getting back to your studies.
Everyone needs a sense of connection, and studies have shown that people who maintain positive social relationships are typically happier and healthier.
Be proactive in staying in touch with a friend or group of friends, as staying connected helps build that mental safety net. Sometimes you may be feeling a bit down and just need some support from a mate or two.
If you want to speak to someone beyond your friendship circle, UNSW Psychology & Wellness offers free, confidential, short-term counselling and wellbeing services for students. Not only are qualified mental health professionals available to support you through any challenges, but these appointments are all confidential, meaning they will not be associated to your student records or visa when you reach out.
Everyone has a hobby, whether it's a love of trains or a love of motorsport. The important thing is taking time out of your busy schedule to enjoy activities that make you happy.
Indulging in a hobby is a great way to unwind from your day-to-day schedule while doing wonders for your mental well-being.
If you're interested in starting up a new hobby or want to meet people with similar interests, there's almost certainly a UNSW club that fits the bill. Every club is full of welcoming people who want to hang out, so don't be afraid to reach out and join in on the fun.
Support is here if you need it
We all need some support from time to time, so make sure you connect with family members and close friends whom you trust whenever you need it. This helps reduce feelings of loneliness while providing support during those difficult moments.
If you're not comfortable sharing with those who are close to you, UNSW has plenty of mental health resources available. Just remember, you don't have to navigate those tough moments alone.
Last edited on 9 June 2026
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