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'Say what...?'

What to say when you have no words.

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When 'jokes' or comments are made that we, or others, may find offensive, calling it out can be daunting and uncomfortable.

We are often unsure what to say in the moment and risk remaining silent and letting it go unchallenged. In most cases it is better to call out the behaviour as inappropriate rather than personally attacking the person doing it.

Here are some ways to.call out the joke or comment and let the person who made it know that it was unacceptable.

In the moment

Things you can say:

  • 'I don't find that funny'
  • 'That is inappropriate'
  • 'I'm not comfortable with that'
  • 'That offends me'
  • 'Can you explain what you mean by that'

 

After the event

Things you can do:

  • Support the group or individuals who were the target of the comment
  • Reach out directly to the person who made the comment and tell them it offended you
  • Tell a friend and discuss plans for action
  • Report the incident
  • Seek help and support

Report an incident

Whether you have been directly affected, are a witness to an incident or a support person, you can make an official complaint, an anonymous report or simply provide feedback.
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